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Parenting the Very Young Pagan

I grew up in a very spiritual, nature positive household, and I am doing what I can to pass this along to my daughter. Carl Banks Here is some advice from what I learned from both parenting my child and from what my grandparents did with me. St. Johns Red Storm

    • Remember that fairy tales are still real to the young pagan. NIKE AIR MAX THEA ULTRA FLYKNIT
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    • Buy your child an age appropriate (since my child is 4, her knife is a butter knife with a pink plastic handle) set of kitchen tools which are special to them that they clean and care for themselves.

    • Take your child on walks, hikes and camping. New Balance 998 m?skie Buy them a notebook and an identification book for animals or plants and plan to find one new thing each walk, and write the name and draw a picture of it.
    • If your local park system has a Junior Rangers program, join it. Canotte Indiana Pacers Atlanta Hawks This teaches the child wilderness safety and a general reverence for nature.
    • Allow your child her own fashion sense, even if that means wearing ruby slippers and a Halloween cat shirt every day for year. NMD New Balance 420 m?skie Have a ceremony for the cat shirt when she finally outgrows it and keep a piece either on her alter or in a scrapbook.
    • Involve your child in a spirtual community where she can meet others with similar or complimentary beliefs. Texas Longhorns Jerseys Missouri Tigers Volunteer and be active in the community to show her your support and respect.This will help her give her tools later to fight any bullying she receives for being different and to fight the peer pressure associated with the Junior and Senior High years.
    • Understand that all children follow the beat of their own drummers, and often will not comply with instructions in group rituals. Nike Air Max Goedkoop Asics Gel Lyte 3 Femme Beige Adapt and don’t shame her for not listening to all the directions of adults (unless, of course it is a safety thing.
    • Give your child a sacred space to decorate however they want.
    • Play with your child and do arts and crafts with them.

    35 Tips on Being a Pagan or Heathen Parent

    1)      Keep it age appropriate and do what will work based on your kids maturity.

    2)      It’s not just about what you want to do or your spiritual path its about theirs too. 12th Man – Texas A&M Aggies So don’t be surprised if they wind up on a different path then you.

    3)      Make it fun and interesting for them.

    4)      Play lots of games and do lots of arts and crafts.

    5)      Keep rituals short don’t go longer than their attention spans.

    6)      Make time to be able to go away and do your own thing.

    7)      Don’t get upset if they don’t show as much interest as you wish they did. Dexter McCluster Titans Jerseys NIKE Air VAPORMAX

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    8)      Have other interests and hobbies to share with them too.

    9)      Lead by example. Scarpe Air Jordan 9 Oklahoma City Thunder Don’t just teach Harm None and the Noble Virtues DO THEM and then talk to your kids about how you live them.

    10)   Let them have their own shrine and decorate it however they want.

    11)   Read to them and with them and have them read to you.

    12)   Don’t get ideas in your head about how they will grow up to be amazing High Priestesses or anything. Nike Blazer Femme buty nike janoski damskie Tom Brady Michigan Jerseys Just let them grow into who they will be.

    13)   Don’t live vicariously through them.

    14)   Don’t treat them like trophies to show off.

    15)   Monitor them and be a parent even at festivals and in ritual and stuff. NIKE AIR MORE UPTEMPO Asics Gel Lyte 3 Femme Beige scarpe new balance running 2015 The Pagan community is not your babysitter.

    16)   Take every learning experience available and use it.

    17)   Get outside with them as much as possible.

    18)   Go camping lots.

    19)   Have pets or friends who have pets. Adidas Zx 500 Heren Air Jordan 3 (III) Nike Air Jordan 13
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    20)   Let them pray the way they want to pray.

    21)   Tell the story about their Naming Day just like you tell the story of the day they were born.

    22)   Celebrate little things and big things together.

    23)   Find good role models and adopt some aunties and uncle in the community. Asics Gel Lyte 5 Femme Kaki West Virginia Mountaineers Kids aren’t always going to want to talk to you or look up to you so they need other adults.

    24)   Educate them as best you can. Womens Nike Air Max TN

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    25)   Teach them to love to learn by loving to learn yourself in front of them. Canotte Cleveland Cavalier Curry One Bambini Bassi Get excited about learning new things.

    26)   Take them to museums and historical sites.

    27)   Tell them stories from their heritage like how great-great-grandpa came to Canada.

    28)   Teach them to be full of wonder and reverence for the Earth by being that way yourself.

    29)   Smile lots. Adidas Stan Smith Heren sac fjallraven pas cher adidas pas cher Smile at them. Parajumpers Homme Super Light new balance 373 bleu marine et bordeaux Don’t let the stress of having kids make you frown all the time.

    30)   Go on adventures together.

    31)   Let them make their own rituals tools and get glitter everywhere.

    32)   Don’t put so much time and energy into your spirituality that you don’t spend enough time with them.

    33)   Remember your kids are more important than your gods and the gods are okay with that.