A Rambling Rant about Simplifying the Way Things Work

I owe you guys a post! Its been a while since I wrote some long, rambling, scattered rant so here ya go:

In my opinion the universe (or should I say multiverse) is just to dammed big and complicated for statements like “there is no such thing as luck”

It’s a great big multiverse and we’re all really puny, we’re just tiny little specks … its big and black and inky and we’re all really dinky. It’s a BIG multiverse and we’re not.

Perhaps it’s the pluralists or shamanic practitioner in me, but I cannot conceive of a multiverse where luck, coincidence, fate, destiny, force of will, personal responsibility, social responsibility, divine presence, divine will and a million other factors do not exist all at once. The black and white thinking where we see all or nothing, or one or the other just doesn’t make sense to my mind. I believe in fate and luck, I believe in personal power and responsibility and all the other things all together. I believe there are factors involved in the operation of the worlds (deliberate plural worlds there) and more forces at work than we could ever be fully aware of at any given moment or even over the course of one single century long lifetime.

I am uncomfortable with blanket statements such as “there is no fate” or “there is no luck” the human mortal mind is just too simple and too small to fully comprehend the wizard behind the curtain. We can barely perceive that there is a curtain.

I do believe that we create our own reality, not in the sense of the Secret, but in the sense that we are responsible for how we choose to perceive things and deal with them.

I agree that we are often more responsible for the things that happen to us than we often think we are, or can see as it is happen to us.

However I refuse to believe that only we are responsible for the goings on in our lives. That we cause these things by being “closed or “open” or through thought or visualization… or even through our actions and words. I will agree that often these things are a factor, even a major factor. But I cannot accept that they are the only cause.

I refuse to accept any claim that we cause everything that happens in our lives to happen.

I will not believe that any child being raped has brought about her abuse upon herself in any way shape or form. No child is personally responsible for being raped. As an adult that child will be responsible for her own healing, yes, but never should that child ever be considered responsible for what was done to her.

When people claim that it’s all a matter of personal responsibility they do so without thought for the child being molested. They do so without thought for the woman helplessly watching her son be executed by a guerrilla militia, they do so without thought for the people swept away in a tsunami.

To make such a blanket, black and white statement as everything is a matter of choice and personal responsibility makes as much sense in my mind as to say that the people in Haiti really DID cause the earthquake to happen to them by practicing Voodoo. It relies on a similar kind of logic.

The multiverse does not fit into boxes. It cares nothing for our definitions or attempts at explaining its myriad of processes. The forces of the worlds, both seen and unseen cannot be understood, let alone articulated by your or I. We cannot even begin to comprehend them.

Therefore I wholeheartedly reject all blanket statements such as “there is no such thing as luck”

It’s easy to say things like “everything is a matter of personal responsibility” and “there’s no such thing as luck” when sitting in an air conditioned home in one of the safest neighbourhoods in North America. Try farming…try simple living, try living in such a way that something as fickle and unpredictable as a hail storm can mean the difference of having enough food to eat and enough money to support you through winter.

7 Responses to “A Rambling Rant about Simplifying the Way Things Work”

  • i agree with you. abuse of children, who are dependent upon adults, and becoming less so as they grow up, have had their boundaries as beings stomped on, or their power taken. The adults who abuse the child have chosen to do that. The children involved do not have that choice.

    Still, the adult who abuses the child will have a hard time accepting that, but a child becomes an object and not a person in the process of the abuse. Those are choices the adult involved made, consciously or not.

    That being said, adults have the freedom of choice. Problem for most adults is that they would rather be children, or victims of circumstance, than acknowledge where and when they had the power of choice, but did not exercise it.

    I believe that people find themselves in circumstances beyond their control, like those living in Louisiana, post Katrina, and now post oil spill, and now have to somehow make the best of it, but the best of it means not enjoying the same level of financial security others enjoy using oil, from driving their SUVs to having plastic products everywhere. At what point do we acknowledge what part do we play in creating misfortune for others? And, at what point do we acknowledge that we have to allow people the freedom of their own choices, even when they are destroying ourselves?

    Children and other vulnerable adults (like the intellectually or mentally challenged or the elderly) are the only ones, in my opinion, not fully responsible for their lives. And, as adults, we are responsible for the decisions we make, and the consequences, seen and unseen, of the choices we make. Our job to children is to guide them and share decision making with them, and intervene when it would be cruel or disastrous.

    That all being said, a child who was abused becomes an adult has the power to decide if the abuse of the past will rule the present; either through unresolved pain, resentments or other issues that hold one back, or if the abuse and the history of it will have some other transformative meaning. No one can heal another’s wounds–just make healing available.

    good post. thanks for your words on this.

  • I completely agree with you. Everything is a shade of grey, nothing is ever black and white in any given situation. Some people just find it so hard to see the grey that you can’t even convince them that there are several shades of grey…

    Nellie x

  • I totally agree with you, and I really appreciate this post. I think people are so very focused on finding the answer to “why!?!” that they actually put blinders on and accept the first straightforward answer or explanation that comes their way. I think that there is a certain amount of responsibility put on the self to move forward, but at the same time, as you said, how could we ever begin to understand what lies beyond “the curtain”.

  • [...] with that I should get back to work. I encourage you to go check out this post at Walking the Hedge. It’s a great post and definitely gets you thinking about fate, luck and [...]

  • could it be that juni hit upon a truth….that there is no such thing as one answer, but several, interdependent factors, all creating something at the same time?

    i think we all want to believe we have some power in a situation. i also believe we are not responsible for all the choices of others. but what then is the net result of all the choices made? hmmm….so much for in the box thinking.

  • Dizzy Witch:

    Do not ask Why. Be cautious with How. Why leads inexorably to paradox. How traps you in a universe of cause and effect. Both deny the infinite.

    – Anon

  • Well said! Especially that last paragraph…

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Most folks call me Juniper, my friends call me Juni. I am thirty years old but eternally youthful.

I have been a farmer and a city girl, a homesteader and a wanderer. I have worked in animal rescue and occult shops, art galleries, liquor stores and bead shops.

I have been practising Paganism and Witchcraft for 15 years. I am not an Elder, nor guru. I am just a messy little Hedgewitch who speaks her mind.

I hunt in thrift store jungles and gather in the wildwoods. I practice in groves and ditches, hedgerows and sea shores, basements and vacant lots.

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